On their social media and podcast platforms, Drew Afualo She is nothing but true to herself. And as she prepares to marry her fiancé Pili Tanuvasa, the influencer follows that same spirit of authenticity every step of the way.

While speaking with GENTE about his collaborations with the NBA and banking application RingAfualo shared a sneak peek of her wedding planning schedule, though she says she’s “very, very private” when it comes to that part of her life. The comments section The podcast host notes that she is not sure what part of the process she will share with her 9 million followers around the world. instagram and tiktok.

“Whatever you choose to share will be a pleasant surprise for all of us,” says Afualo, who got engaged to fitness and lifestyle coach Tanuvasa on September 2. “As for wedding planning content, I don’t foresee it in the future because that’s not what I talk about right now. I’m not really a lifestyle girl, but if I share things, I’m sure it will be fun for all of us “.

Something fans definitely won’t see from Afualo? A classic bachelorette party for girls. Your future husband won’t have a standard bachelor weekend either.

“We just don’t vibe with that kind of energy. That’s not really our vibe,” the content creator tells PEOPLE. “Instead, I think what we’ll do is go on vacation with our wedding party together. We’ve already planned to do that, and I think that’s what we feel, what we love.” let’s do.”

Afualo, who made her name criticizing misogynistic behavior online, says she doesn’t “feel beholden” to more traditional wedding practices, but has “no problem” when it comes to other people’s nuptials.

“Weddings in general are very specific to the person and what people love and want. I don’t think I’ll ever poop on anything, especially if other people do,” explains the Out Loud: Accept Nothing Less Than the Life You Deserve author.

It’s the same simple philosophy that she and Tanuvasa have in mind when dreaming up their own wedding: “We’re just going to do what we love and what we want, and I think that’s beautiful,” Afualo says.