I’ve slept with my girlfriend’s mom and my boyfriend’s sister and even bedded my therapist – I can’t help it, I’m a sex addict

A MAN has revealed he has slept with his boyfriend’s sister, his girlfriend’s mother and even his therapist but he can’t do anything about it because he is a sex addict.

The 30-year-old confessed that not only has he cheated on every partner he’s ever been with, but he’s done it multiple times.

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But that’s not all, because he also watches porn and masturbates at work.

The man took to social media to reveal his sex addiction, leaving many open-mouthed.

On Reddit, in the r/relationship_advice thread, the man titled his post “Being a sex addict is destroying my life.”

The anonymous man then confessed: “I am a sex addict. Sex has always been an important part of my life.

“I have money and I’m pretty good looking too… women add me on Instagram, talk to me in bars, etc.

“I play several instruments, speak five languages, travel a lot… and I’m quite fun to be around… so girls think I’m interesting.”

But despite his successful lifestyle, the man explained: ‘I need advice on how to control myself.

“I’m the kind of guy who watches porn and masturbates at work.

“I swear I’m not a bad person, but I just can’t wrap my head around it.

“My friends think I’m living the life of a rock star… but they don’t understand that I’m becoming more and more depressed with this lifestyle… all my friends are in serious relationships, building houses and having financial stability and having children. I’m jealous of them.

“They have a great career and I’m stuck because of my addiction.”

The man revealed that when he was single, he coped well with his sex addiction, despite masturbating four to five times a day and sleeping with two to three different women a week.

But he shared: “I have to masturbate when I wake up and I can’t sleep if I don’t.

“During my first relationship, I managed to control myself for three months. But then I couldn’t resist the temptation of a girl hitting me.

“This has happened in other relationships too. I don’t like the idea of ​​open relationships, I want to be an average Joe and have a wife and be decent to her.

“I live in a small town, but I travel for work, so I decided to only fuck random girls when I travel.”

He admitted that he would meet sexual partners through dating apps, such as Tinder and Bumble, and that he has slept with several women.

He continued: “Sometimes I would fuck waitresses, clerks, flight attendants… whatever… This led me to watch more porn because I couldn’t get all the sex I wanted in my hometown.

“I finally decided to fuck high class escorts… I spent €3,000 a month on this…”

I cheated on all my partners multiple times… I regret it VERY BADLY afterward, but I just can’t do anything about it

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But the man admitted his addiction has made him “anxious and miserable” and has put him in some very “bizarre situations”.

Not only has he contracted a variety of sexually transmitted infections (STDs) like herpes, chlamydia, and gonorrhea, but he also confessed, “I cheated on all my partners multiple times…I regret it REALLY BADLY afterward, but I just can’t help it.”

He then added, “I dated multiple girls at once (I mean, I knew their family, friends, co-workers, etc.) and cheated on them with each other.

“F****da’s friend’s mother…this has ruined our friendship. A friend’s sister. F****da friend’s mother (ruined our relationship and her relationship with her mother).”

As if that wasn’t bad enough, he admitted: “I have destroyed at least three relationships of girls who were in serious relationships and decided to have sex with me.

“Was caught on camera at my building, neighbors complained of loud noises from my bedroom being heard in the elevator lobby.”

He even claimed, “Tried therapy… fucked the therapist.”

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Not only has he ruined many relationships, but he also shared, “I’m still spending a lot of money on this.

“My friends don’t understand me and some don’t even know I’m like that because I know people don’t want to be with someone like me.

“Anyway, now I’ve met a girl who doesn’t know anything about my past. She is caring, loving and I want to settle down with her.

“We don’t have the same sex drive, but I love her and I want to treat her right… I’ve done some bad things after I met her, but I feel so guilty and sad about it.”

The man confessed that he wants to ‘improve’ himself and ‘become a better person’ and therefore wanted advice.

REDDIT USERS REACT

Reddit users flocked to the comments to share their thoughts on the man’s situation – with many advising him to pursue ‘serious’ and ‘long-term’ therapy.

You just need to reduce the time you spend on sexual things, slowly but surely, and find a satisfying hobby to distract yourself from these needs

Reddit user

One person said: “Therapy. Serious long-term therapy.”

Another added: “Find a therapist you’re not attracted to.”

A third commented: “Wow, I mean, wow… I think you just need to reduce the time you spend on sexual things, slowly but surely, and find a fulfilling hobby to distract yourself from these needs, like going to the gym, doing art. lessons, etc.”

While someone else said: “I am a compassionate person. But when I read how many lives you’ve ruined through sex and you think you’re a good person, I feel sorry for the woman you’re with now.