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    • Social services knocked on my door when I had my first baby. She was terrified and the TROLLS were to blame, says Ashley James.
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    Social services knocked on my door when I had my first baby. She was terrified and the TROLLS were to blame, says Ashley James.

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    ASHLEY James has revealed that life in the spotlight isn’t all glitz and glamour, with trolls even going so far as to call social services.

    The actions of 37 years daughter Ada, one year old, and her son Alfie, three, with her partner of five years. Tommy Andrews.

    Ashley James, pictured, spoke candidly about being herself in a new episode of the podcast A Gentle Start: The Showercast.

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    Ashley James, pictured, spoke candidly about being herself in a new episode of the podcast A Gentle Start: The Showercast.Credit: Will Ireland/Pinpep
    Ashley and her partner Tommy have a three-year-old son, Alfie, and a one-year-old daughter, Ada.

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    Ashley and her partner Tommy have a three-year-old son, Alfie, and a one-year-old daughter, Ada.Credit: instagram/ashleylouisejames
    Ashley said trolls reported her to social services while she was pregnant with her daughter Ada.

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    Ashley said trolls reported her to social services while she was pregnant with her daughter Ada.Credit: instagram/ashleylouisejames

    Ashley has gained over 437,000 followers on Instagram since appearing on Made in Chelsea and Celebrity Big Brother.

    However, the reality TV star revealed in a new episode of the podcast. A Soft Start: The Showercast by Timotei that not all those who follow her are fans.

    “When I was pregnant with my daughter Ada, I experienced trolling on a different level,” she said.

    “I was basically reported to social services for negligence and it all went back to this anonymous online gossip website.

    “I think at the time it really bothered me, but I actually quickly think that sadness or fear was replaced by anger.

    “I know how loved my children are and I know that I am a good mother – interestingly, that is something I have never doubted.”

    Ashley said that she paternity Choices are influenced by the different challenges your children may face in the future.

    She has noticed that people talk to them differently because of their gender.

    “So with my son Alfie it’s like ‘oh, he’s going to be a heartthrob’,” she said.

    “I don’t want her to become another victim of toxic masculinity where she feels like she has to toughen up and I don’t want Ada to feel like she has to be meek or quiet.

    “What if I don’t like guys who tell me I need to be quiet? Why was that never an option?”

    Ashley James’ heartbreaking week: Alfie’s fall and the challenges of motherhood

    Ashley’s decision to let her children be themselves without conforming to society’s expectations is representative of how she lives her own life.

    He said that starting posting unedited photos of himself on Instagram around 2014 “felt pretty radical.”

    “It wasn’t actually common to see people who hadn’t been photoshopped or filtered,” she said.

    “I think, fortunately, it’s a lot more normal now.”

    “I wanted my Instagram to start being a little more honest with myself but also with other women,” she added.

    The This Morning presenter constantly reminds herself not to worry about how other people will perceive her.

    He said old photos of her seem “soulless” because of how they were edited.

    Different breeding techniques

    Below are some widely recognized methods:

    Authoritarian parenting
    This technique will often encourage independence, self-discipline, and high self-esteem in children.
    It is often considered the most effective; This technique involves parents setting clear expectations (enforcing rules) while also showing warmth and support.

    Authoritarian parenting
    This is the opposite of authoritarian parenting, as this is when the parent sets high demands but has little responsiveness.
    It involves ensuring that the child is obedient and often employing punitive measures. While this can lead to disciplined behavior, it can also result in lower self-esteem and social skills in children.

    Permissive parenting
    Permissive parents tend to be indulgent and indulgent, often taking on a role more like that of a friend than that of an authority figure. They are very receptive but undemanding, which gives children a lot of freedom. This method can foster creativity and a free-spirited nature, but it can also lead to poor self-regulation and difficulties with authority.

    Parenting not involved
    Uninvolved or neglectful parenting is characterized by low responsiveness and low demands. Parents in this category offer minimal guidance, love, or attention. This often leaves children feeling abandoned, which can have significant negative effects on their emotional and social development.

    Helicopter parenting
    Helicopter parents are extremely involved and overprotective, often micromanaging their children’s lives. Although intended to protect and support, this approach can hinder a child’s ability to develop independence and problem-solving skills.

    Breeding in freedom
    Free-range parenting encourages children to explore and learn from their environment with minimal parental interference. This method promotes independence and resilience, but requires a safe and supportive environment to be successful.

    Attachment Parenting
    According Marriage.comAttachment parenting focuses on physical closeness and emotional bonding, often through practices such as co-sleeping and baby-carrying. This approach aims to create secure attachments and emotional well-being, but requires a lot of time and emotional commitment from parents.
    Each of these parenting techniques has its own set of strengths and weaknesses. The key is to find a balanced approach that aligns with the family’s values ​​and meets the child’s needs for a healthy, happy parenting.

    Ashley argued that people should live for themselves.

    “It’s a little corny to say, but I always think that when I’m on my deathbed I’m not going to say ‘good thing I didn’t eat carbs’ or ‘good thing I managed to wear the smallest dress size.’ ‘”, said.

    “You think about the people you hugged or the mountains you climbed.

    “All the things your body allows you to do, it doesn’t matter what it looks like, as long as you’re strong and healthy.”

    Ashley was “exhausted” worrying about other people’s opinions while starring on Made in Chelsea.

    He appeared on the reality show for two seasons in 2013.

    It focuses on the lives of the rich, but at that time she lived in her poverty.

    “I couldn’t afford to get the tube, so I had to walk to the set,” he said.

    “I felt like I was living this strange lie and I think that’s also why I don’t apologize for who I am now.”

    Ashley said being on Made in Chelsea was like living a 'strange lie' as it depended on her overdraft.

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    Ashley said being on Made in Chelsea was like living a ‘strange lie’ as it depended on her overdraft.Credit: Instagram
    Ashley, pictured, stopped editing her Instagram photos in 2014 to be more honest with herself.

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    Ashley, pictured, stopped editing her Instagram photos in 2014 to be more honest with herself.Credit: PA

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