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My husband said he loved me the day we met online – but when I finally moved to another country to be with him, he gave me an STD

My husband said he loved me the day we met online – but when I finally moved to another country to be with him, he gave me an STD

A FIANCE revealed her shock after discovering her partner of 90 days cheated on her straight away.

Faith, who works in the domestic department, always wanted to move to the US until she met her partner Loren.

Faith was left distraught after she married her husband after knowing him for 90 days

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Faith was left distraught after she married her husband after knowing him for 90 daysCredit: Warner Bros./Discovery
Faith and Loren had known each other for 90 days after meeting online

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Faith and Loren had known each other for 90 days after meeting onlineCredit: Warner Bros./Discovery

The couple gave insight into their relationship on the reality show 90 Day Fiance.

Loren had always dreamed of marrying a trans woman, but finding the right person in the US proved challenging.

So he decided to look for love abroad and downloaded a few Filipino dating apps. Almost immediately he connected with Faith.

Although they had never met in person, they messaged each other daily.

Loren soon developed deep feelings for Faith and admired her hard-working spirit and close-knit family.

It is remarkable that Loren and Faith told each other: “I love you” on the first day after chatting.

To Loren, Faith seemed perfect in every way.

Six months later, Loren spent his entire savings to fly to Manila to meet Faith in person, and stayed with her in the Philippines.

But as the reality show followed their relationship, it started to show some turbulence.

Change plans

Faith was surprised when Loren decided to stay in the Philippines instead of returning to the US.

Speaking to Loren about the documentary, she says: “I didn’t know (you wanted to stay in the Philippines) because I thought if we were together we would move to the US?”

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Speaking to the cameras, Faith continues: “It’s a big shock to me. He always knew I was hoping to move to the US and he never told me if he wanted to live here.”

But what really nagged at her was the overwhelming feeling that Loren was keeping secrets.

Other women

And she soon discovered the truth that Loren was seeing other women, and that he contracted an STD.

Faith says on the show: “I made the wrong decision.

“I made such a bad decision.”

From Loren’s perspective, he thought their relationship was open.

Loren, who had to go to the clinic to get seven days of medicine – which he called “fun pills” – to cure his STD, tells the camera: “She’s very upset, and now I don’t even know if she’ll go back talk to me.

“This could be the end of everything.”

But Faith was under the impression that they were in a monogamous relationship.

To complicate matters, Loren had been actively looking for women on the same dating app he met Faith on, and the little money he came to the Philippines with went to his medications.

About Faith, Loren says, “She’s the one who’s upset. She is very upset, and I don’t know if she will ever talk to me again.

When Loren first landed in the Philippines, he traveled light

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When Loren first landed in the Philippines, he traveled lightCredit: Warner Bros./Discovery
Faith insisted she wasn't with Loren because of his finances

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Faith insisted she wasn’t with Loren because of his financesCredit: Instagram/Faith Gatoc Tulod

“This could be the end of everything.”

He admitted that he knew Faith didn’t understand him when he said he wanted to spend the nights at other people’s homes.

Furthermore, Loren’s finances were questionable for Faith.

When Loren first landed in the Philippines, he traveled light — just $46 in his pocket.

Money problems

He casually told Faith that he had more money tied up in an “open charge” and that he was anxiously waiting for his paycheck to clear.

In an attempt to relieve the pressure, Loren converted all his money into Philippine pesos, hoping it would increase even further.

Speaking to the cameras, Faith insisted she wasn’t with Loren because of his finances; she believed there were plenty of opportunities to make money back in the US

It looks like Loren and Faith are still together. The show’s trip took place in November 2023, but they are currently in a long-distance relationship with Loren back in America and Faith staying in the Philippines.

Loren seems to have convinced Faith that he’s the one for her, but fans will have to wait the rest of this season. 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days to watch their story unfold.

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