Muthoni wa Mukiri advises woman (35) to dump 24-year-old boyfriend: “He will waste your time”

• Muthoni wa Mukiri’s advice to a 35-year-old lady dating a man eleven years younger than her has drawn divided reactions
• The media personality turned relationship coach believed the relationship wouldn’t work, and gave three reasons
• Some netizens echoed Muthoni’s sentiments, while others in age-gap relationships contradicted her comments

Former Inooro TV news anchor and relationship coach Muthoni wa Mukiri has advised a woman dating a younger man to dump him.

Do relationships with age differences work?

A 35-year-old lady wrote to Muthoni for advice on whether it was okay to date a 24-year-old man.

“Age is not just a number. When you date a man who is much younger than you, you will automatically find that as a woman you lean towards your masculine side. You are the one who arranges dates, the one who advises him, the one who takes over. You take initiative and take the lead role in your relationship. Then you present this man and you feel bad about yourself,” she said.

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The mother of one of them believed that the lady’s decision has consequences and outlined the reasons why such a relationship cannot work.

“When you date a younger man, your maternal instincts are triggered. You automatically start raising this man. You start acting like his mother, and that’s just nature,” she said.

Muthoni told that the man is not mature enough to be in a relationship.

“If you are looking for a relationship with a future, for example you want to settle down, have children… This man could be wasting your time,” she explained.

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Muthoni’s advice drew mixed reactions, with many supporting her while others disagreed with the comments.

Lomero said:

“Age doesn’t matter… what matters is maturity.”

Eunic,emarks24 said:

“That is the spirit of despair riswaaa.”

Yusuf Njeru said:

“I am 30 years after mke wangu and 35 years after tumekaa kwa ndoa for 9 years and we are doing well.”

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Tyt wrote:

“I don’t agree with that. Nowadays some people are younger, but very mature and smart. You can advise someone under 20 to someone over 30… people are different.”

Carolina Carols said:

“The answer is 💯💯.”

Prince said:

“Hello you enjoy raising him now ukweli am a victim bana alikuwa ananichululia kama mtoto wake😂.”

said Michelle🦋:

“That’s totally okay.”

Denniskareri450 said:

“As long as you’re happy.”

Josephtalam598 said:

“Ukweli, you are becoming his mother.”

Timeless love

Elsewhere, a 60-year-old woman, Yusta Lucas, revealed he was ready to lose everything for her young lover, aged 27, as they are about to tie the knot.

Yusta was in love with her lover, noting that she considered him her husband and hugged him during an interview.

The lady remarked this to her lover; she was the most beautiful woman and was not afraid of anything or anyone.

Proofreading by Otukho Jackson, a multimedia journalist and copy editor at TUKO.co.ke

Source: TUKO.co.ke